There is serviral type of pain .. physical and emotional .. the big problem is if you suffer them both at the same time. I made surjery and lived on morfin for days to remove the physical pain. but when you start to feel better you get hit by bad news. a friend of mine ( on the net ) died in car crash i received the news from his brother . it was really sad to hear that. we used to talk over the net and have some laughs together. i give my condolences to his family and i hope he rest in peace.