I spoke before about the problem in relation and how it’s always the man fault, but the true cause of the problems is the misunderstanding each other.
So what is the solution ?Â it’s simple just talk, open up to each other don’t hide anything from your partner. Talk about everything that bugs youÂ and you don’t like don’t keep it to yourself share it with your partner, you’ll be amazed how was the misunderstanding or the issue was a small and it was solved by a small talk.
The two couples always expect that the other one understand each other and they don’t need to talk about it , well that is wrong talking will get to know each other more, the man can tell the wife what he expect and why ( this is important don’t force your way on the women explain why you want that ) and also the woman can tell the husband what does she expect.
Some times women have high expectation and when things goes wrong it’s the man fault 🙂 . No it’s not the man fault your expectation was high and you didn’t talk with your husband about it, men are humans and humans do make mistakes.
Bottom line the solution is simple Sit and talk with your partner make a time everyday to talk and to see what your partner thinking, don’t force it out of your partner instead find a good time to discuss and talk.
Well IÂ promised that I will post a picture of my son Yousef (Joseph ) and here it is :
Sorry my finger was in the way but this is best picture i have for him on the IPhone. the other is on the camera with his mom i’ll get the cam later 🙂
In every married life there is always difficulties that face the husband and wife. so what cause the problem? most men doesn’t love to make any problem in fact they try to avoid it as it will make their life miserable. women in the other hand tend to create problems out of nothing just to test men ( OMG WHAT ARE THEY THINKING!!!) and when it takes a wrong turn Suddenly it’s the man fault .
I don’t say that men doesn’t make mistakes but if you look closely you find the main reason for the problem is a woman. Â It doesn’t have to be the wife, but in fact it can be even your mother (a women ), your sister , your friend or even your secret lover ( Just by going there you are in a big problem man ) .
Why women tend to do that? women can’t admit at all that they are wrong no mater what proof that you show them ( even if you have 1000 person testify that it was her fault or show her a recording of the problem) Â they never admit ( only few who are smart admit it but even not directly 🙂 ), so what men can do ? well as perviously said it’s the man fault take it and accept it.
We tend to avoid problem and women expect us to accept the problems are our faults. If you stand it will end in a horrible way. There is a solution to this Â I will write about it later Â 🙂
I wanted to talk about this subject a long time ago but didn’t have time.Â but being in the hospital with nothing today just waiting i decided to write and discuss it with the people crawlingÂ the blog, so let’s get into the point.
Why is it always the man fault, when ever anything happen in the Â married life it’s always the man fault. even if it’s clearly shows that the woman is the one to be blamed you’ll doomed if you said it. Â And men just accept it to get over with it but if you try Â just a small try to stand and defend yourself all gates of hell open on you.
Women have their way to control each aspect of the man life and if you don’t follow it. it’s your fault and it ends in bad way, their biggest weapon is tears and in the end you’ll feel sorry for her and idiotically you accept that it’s your fault ( SHAME ON YOU MEN SHAME ON YOU ).
Women always find a way to take themselves out f being blamed and expect an apology from you for what they originally their fault . Men in the other hand if they have a valid point it get berried by the pile of excuse the women think of, the man nature come in his disadvantage Â when ever Â such thing happen he become speechless and try to control the situation but eventually after getting mad and refusing to accept it he will appoligise for the issue swallowing all the sorrow just to get back to the normal life.
What drive you crazy if women doesn’t accept the apology and insists that they are hurt. well in this case action differ from men to men, some men take it further to invite her to Â a romantic dinner or lunch and apologizing. some take it really bad and end up in a disaster.
Well i don’t know what to writer there. but i have been there many times and i managed to doge the problem but that teach me a lot of thing about my wife and how to avoid such cases in the future.
Update: Just after reading this i found out that it’s misleading as I’m accusing men for it. my point is that Women is saying that .. even if it’s not true.Â Not blaming men for anything.
P.S: no men or women was harmed during the writing of this post 🙂
On 19th Of Aug 2009 @ 08:45 AM Â I became a father.
i can’t describe the joy of being a father and carrying my own son. Not far away i had similar feeling of being an uncle. Â But nothing compares holding your own son and looking at him. I decided to call himÂ Yousef (Joseph ).
I’ll post pics of him later 🙂
Well as you can see Â it’s been a while since i write anything here .
so i though i should change the blog and remodel it to start a new era..
and era for my net life.
So starting today the Blog will be all about rants, macs, and tech \0/
wait a min .. it’s the same as the old one just the title change … oh well .. let’s pretend it just started -_-