The Solution

I spoke before about the problem in relation and how it’s always the man fault, but the true cause of the problems is the misunderstanding each other.

So what is the solution ?  it’s simple just talk, open up to each other don’t hide anything from your partner. Talk about everything that bugs you  and you don’t like don’t keep it to yourself share it with your partner, you’ll be amazed how was the misunderstanding or the issue was a small and it was solved by a small talk.

The two couples always expect that the other one understand each other and they don’t need to talk about it , well that is wrong talking will get to know each other more, the man can tell the wife what he expect and why ( this is important don’t force your way on the women explain why you want that ) and also the woman can tell the husband what does she expect.

Some times women have high expectation and when things goes wrong it’s the man fault 🙂 . No it’s not the man fault your expectation was high and you didn’t talk with your husband about it, men are humans and humans do make mistakes.

Bottom line the solution is simple Sit and talk with your partner make a time everyday to talk and to see what your partner thinking, don’t force it out of your partner instead find a good time to discuss and talk.

Every problem in a relation is caused by a women

In every married life there is always difficulties that face the husband and wife. so what cause the problem? most men doesn’t love to make any problem in fact they try to avoid it as it will make their life miserable. women in the other hand tend to create problems out of nothing just to test men ( OMG WHAT ARE THEY THINKING!!!) and when it takes a wrong turn Suddenly it’s the man fault .

I don’t say that men doesn’t make mistakes but if you look closely you find the main reason for the problem is a woman.  It doesn’t have to be the wife, but in fact it can be even your mother (a women ), your sister , your friend or even your secret lover ( Just by going there you are in a big problem man ) .

Why women tend to do that? women can’t admit at all that they are wrong no mater what proof that you show them ( even if you have 1000 person testify that it was her fault or show her a recording of the problem)  they never admit ( only few who are smart admit it but even not directly 🙂 ), so what men can do ? well as perviously said it’s the man fault take it and accept it.

We tend to avoid problem and women expect us to accept the problems are our faults. If you stand it will end in a horrible way. There is a solution to this  I will write about it later  🙂