I spoke before about the problem in relation and how it’s always the man fault, but the true cause of the problems is the misunderstanding each other.
So what is the solution ?Â it’s simple just talk, open up to each other don’t hide anything from your partner. Talk about everything that bugs youÂ and you don’t like don’t keep it to yourself share it with your partner, you’ll be amazed how was the misunderstanding or the issue was a small and it was solved by a small talk.
The two couples always expect that the other one understand each other and they don’t need to talk about it , well that is wrong talking will get to know each other more, the man can tell the wife what he expect and why ( this is important don’t force your way on the women explain why you want that ) and also the woman can tell the husband what does she expect.
Some times women have high expectation and when things goes wrong it’s the man fault 🙂 . No it’s not the man fault your expectation was high and you didn’t talk with your husband about it, men are humans and humans do make mistakes.
Bottom line the solution is simple Sit and talk with your partner make a time everyday to talk and to see what your partner thinking, don’t force it out of your partner instead find a good time to discuss and talk.
I wanted to talk about this subject a long time ago but didn’t have time.Â but being in the hospital with nothing today just waiting i decided to write and discuss it with the people crawlingÂ the blog, so let’s get into the point.
Why is it always the man fault, when ever anything happen in the Â married life it’s always the man fault. even if it’s clearly shows that the woman is the one to be blamed you’ll doomed if you said it. Â And men just accept it to get over with it but if you try Â just a small try to stand and defend yourself all gates of hell open on you.
Women have their way to control each aspect of the man life and if you don’t follow it. it’s your fault and it ends in bad way, their biggest weapon is tears and in the end you’ll feel sorry for her and idiotically you accept that it’s your fault ( SHAME ON YOU MEN SHAME ON YOU ).
Women always find a way to take themselves out f being blamed and expect an apology from you for what they originally their fault . Men in the other hand if they have a valid point it get berried by the pile of excuse the women think of, the man nature come in his disadvantage Â when ever Â such thing happen he become speechless and try to control the situation but eventually after getting mad and refusing to accept it he will appoligise for the issue swallowing all the sorrow just to get back to the normal life.
What drive you crazy if women doesn’t accept the apology and insists that they are hurt. well in this case action differ from men to men, some men take it further to invite her to Â a romantic dinner or lunch and apologizing. some take it really bad and end up in a disaster.
Well i don’t know what to writer there. but i have been there many times and i managed to doge the problem but that teach me a lot of thing about my wife and how to avoid such cases in the future.
Update: Just after reading this i found out that it’s misleading as I’m accusing men for it. my point is that Women is saying that .. even if it’s not true.Â Not blaming men for anything.
P.S: no men or women was harmed during the writing of this post 🙂